The Story of the Vanishing Night

We've planned out a few days before and a day after the big day to allow you to relax and enjoy both the wedding and the location. Scotland is a magical place after all. Plus, we hope that by taking a few days away from work, we create the chance for as many happy memories to be created as possible.

There is the gathering… and then there is everything that happens around it.

For those who want to settle in, stay a while, and experience the full rhythm of the weekend, we’ve planned a series of moments across several days. Each one is completely optional - but designed to be best enjoyed unrushed.

If you’re deciding how long to stay: Saturday is the wedding day. Everything else is part of the experience around it.

 

Wednesday, 18 August

Arrivals and a gentle beginning
 

For those arriving early, we’ll be here to welcome you. Think of Wednesday as a soft landing in the Highlands. Nothing formal - just light gatherings, a drink in hand, and time to relax from the travel and ease into the setting.
 

 

Thursday, 19 August

Exploration and discovery
 

Thursday is a choose-your-own-adventure day. We’ll share a curated list of experiences, and you can choose your adventure! Whether that’s a whisky tasting tour, a round of golf, exploring the shops of Inverness and Beauly, visiting the ancient Culloden Battlefield, or heading out onto the inky waters of Loch Ness in search of monsters, there's something to suit all tastes.
 

And for the more ambitious, a hill climbing expedition to summit a local Munro (a Scottish mountain over 3,000 feet) is planned - weather permitting. There is no better way to see Scotland than from the top of a mountain!

You can do as much or as little as you like. We’ll help coordinate options, but nothing is required. If sitting in the relaxing grounds of Achnagairn Castle watching the red squirrels go about their daily toil is more your lane, then you'll have all day to chill back at the castle. 
 

Evening:
After a hard day having fun, we'll come back together for a traditional Scottish haggis supper - warm, communal, with a twist of whisky, Rabbie Burns and tartan.
 

After dinner, a ceilidh (pronounced kay-lee) - a lively night of traditional Scottish music and country dancing. No experience needed. You’ll either be dancing or laughing at the people dancing.
Kilts are encouraged, but not required. Fun is guaranteed.

 

 

Friday, 20 August

Highland traditions and celebration
 

As the cobwebs blow away, a late morning begins with a private Highland games exhibition - rugged competitors, caber tossing, epic tug o' war battles, hammer throwing, and more. All set to the rhythm of traditional drumming.
 

Lunch will be a relaxed Highland picnic.
 

The afternoon is intentionally open. Wander, nap, connect, or do absolutely nothing. But if the morning has inspired you and you’re feeling competitive, you'll join your very own clan and take part in our (slightly easier and less dangerous) version of the guest games! 
 

Evening:
Food trucks under the sky, followed by a live concert with a very, very special and secret guest performer. We’re keeping quiet (for now), but you will not want to miss this, and you'll never forget the moment.

 

Saturday, 21 August

The wedding
 

The reason we are all here.
This is the only “don’t miss” day. We’ll share details closer to the time, but expect something thoughtful, joyful, and very much us.

 

Sunday, 22 August

Rest, restore, remain
 

No plans. No expectations. Sleep in. Walk. Sit with coffee longer than usual. Revisit conversations from the night before. Share stories. Have craic, laughter always follows an epic night, and we'd love to hear yours ringing out around the grounds.

A gentle unwind after a big few days. Perfect if you're not quite ready for the night to vanish just yet. We won't be, and we'd invite you to stay over with us on Sunday too. 
 

A gentle note

Our wedding is intended to be something to settle into - a shared experience that unfolds over time.

Come for the wedding, or come for the full stretch.

Just know… the longer you stay, the harder it will be to leave.

Your accommodation and meals are covered for the duration of the wedding. For those staying for the full event, that means we have you covered from Wednesday night arrival through to Monday morning departure.